Have you ever woken up into a day and had everything that could go wrong go wrong that day? Have you ever wished you could just go back to sleep and wake up to a different day? Well, I have heard similar sentiments expressed about the year 2020! What a year this has been so far!


The world was awakened to a rude shock in the light of the corona virus pandemic. In January 2020 China reported its first death from the virus. Since then more than half a million people have died from Covid-19 related deaths, with over one hundred and thirty thousand of those deaths occurring in the United States. In the month of March, life as we knew it came to a grinding halt! We realized very quickly that we did not have it all together like we previously assumed. Some who thought they had no need of God changed their minds and cried out for mercy from the Almighty. Yet, others continue to persist in their pride and cling on to a false sense of security in a world of crumbling structures.


In the midst of the chaos comes a word of hope, “Out of the one who eats came something to eat; out of the strong came something sweet.” (Judges 14:14) While it is impossible to minimize the loss of loved ones, financial losses, and the pains we currently face, it is comforting to know that God Almighty is able to bring something good out of any bitter circumstance in which we may find ourselves. And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose (Romans 8:28). God’s word has not changed because of the corona virus. Everything else may fail, but God’s word abides forever!


King Uzziah was one of the notably successful kings of Judah. During his reign he built up the infrastructure of the nation. He refortified the nation, reorganized and reequipped the army, and prospered in agriculture. His reign which was marked with comfort and safety which lasted for fifty- two years. After such a time of peace and stability, you can imagine the chaos when King Uzziah died. Times were uncertain. The people of God felt vulnerable as they thought of enemies that surrounded them. It was amid such political and social tension that God appeared to prophet Isaiah revealing that the hem of God’s robe alone is big enough to fill the temple. Falling down in awe, the prophet Isaiah declared, “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord, high and exalted, seated on a throne; and the train of his robe filled the temple” (Isaiah 6:1).


There is political and social tension in the land right now. So many people are challenged with financial insecurities. As in the days of Isaiah, you can see the Lord amid this chaos. While the confession of many is that “there is a casting down,” your story can be that “there is a lifting up!” Testimonies are being recorded, even now! Determine that you will testify of the goodness of God and expect good to come your way, not evil.


As we enter the second half of this year, I encourage you to press on. Do not let your hearts be troubled. Wait on the Lord and be of good courage. Listen! Hear what His Spirit is saying to you. Do not wait for the year to end before you take stock. Pick up your dreams and visions. Trust God for new ways of doing things. Trust God for witty inventions. You would be surprised how much of new innovations have come out of this crisis. The Bible says the wisdom of God is manifold. Do not be limited by your own understanding and perception.


We continue to pray that the mercy of God will prevail. We pray for healing in our land. We pray for peace and justice. We pray for genuine repentance and a turning to the Lord.

I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize (Philippians 3:12).

A Father’s Affirmation

Did you know that as a Dad you have a powerful influence over your children’s lives? One area where you have the most influence is in the area of affirmation. Your affirmation builds confidence in your son or daughter to face the world like nothing else can.  Have you ever told your child “Son I’m proud of you!” or “Daughter, you make me proud!”? If you have, you might recall how it was an instant boost to their confidence and sense of accomplishment. That confidence serves as a reservoir of strength to tackle the next challenge that comes their way. A lack of affirmation from one or both parents may lead to emotional crippling and instability that will manifest as self-doubt, low self-esteem, inability to pursue goals or achieve potentials, and a myriad of relationship and social problems.  

According to the Webster’s Dictionary, to affirm means to assert positively; to tell with confidence; to declare

the existence of something; to maintain as true; to make firm; to establish, or to confirm.  

   Dedicated Love

    Approve, affirm

Discipline

God Himself demonstrated this principle to all Fathers 

As soon as Jesus was baptized, He went up out of the water. Suddenly the heavens were opened, and He saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and resting on Him. And a voice from heaven said, “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased!” (Matthew 3:16-17).  

It was a critical moment in the life and ministry of Jesus. He was about to begin the very thing for which He was born. The father did not leave Him by Himself. God demonstrated with a magnificent display of Heaven’s splendor that this Son had the Father’s approval. Later we will see Jesus drawing on the strength of his father’s affirmation when the Jews questioned him on his identity. 

 “If I bear witness of Myself, My testimony is not true.  There is another who bears witness of Me, and I know that the testimony which He bears of Me is true (Jon 5:31-32). 

“The Father Himself, who has sent Me, has borne witness of Me. You have neither heard His voice at any time, nor seen His form” (John 5:37).

God affirmed Jesus at other times. The gospels record the account of his transfiguration before the disciples. While Peter was still speaking, a bright cloud enveloped them, and a voice from the cloud said, “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. Listen to Him!” (Mathew 17:5) 

If Jesus needed his father’s affirmation, so does your son or daughter!  Your children may be toddlers, teenagers, or adults, the good part is; affirmation benefits everyone. 

Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones (Proverbs 16:24)  Happy Fathers' Day to all fathers and father figures!

My Mother

This mother’s day brings to mind lines from a childhood rhyme by Ann Taylor

Who sat and watched my infant head,

When sleeping in my cradle bed,

And tears of sweet affection shed?

My Mother.

When pain and sickness made me cry,

Who gazed upon my heavy eye,

And wept for fear that I should die?

My Mother.

 I have no recollection of my cradle bed (if I had any)

But I certainly remember many nights I lay on the bed sick with malaria fever

My mother kept the night watch with me, mopping my burning skin with a wet towel 
Praying that God should take away my sickness and my pain.

The greater part of my growing up years were done in a single mother household.  My father was an "absentee father" not by choice, but because the cold hands of death snatched him away before he could really get to know or shape the lives of the two jewels he birthed. My mother made up for the absence of a father's love by showering us with more than a double portion of parental love and attention. It is a miracle that we did not grow up as "spoiled" adults

Who dress’d my doll in clothes so gay,

And taught me pretty how to play.

And minded all I had to say?

My Mother.

Many happy memories from my growing years center around family time and bonding in the congested rented apartment where we lived. I remember vividly how my mother and my younger brother along with cousins, who were just like sisters to me, would play “house" when we had nothing better to do.

They would tease me to dress up pregnant.  My creativity came in to play as I rolled up a piece of African fabric, a pillow, or whatever I could find to represent the mound. Then we will all giggle and laugh silly as I received compliments on how well pregnancy suited me! I must have caught a wistful look on Mummy's face as she contemplated thoughts of her grandchildren. In all of those scenarios, never once did being pregnant out of wedlock cross my mind. Indeed, I saw in my future a happily married woman expecting to bring forth the seed of marital consummation.  Today I am married, I’m a mother, and I am happy, all praise to God! Mommy, you shaped my dreams, God made them come true!

Who taught my infant lips to pray,

And love God’s holy book and day.

And walk in Wisdom’s pleasant way?

My Mother.

Our troubles drove us to God, our fears brought God so near

It was in your house I saw my first miracle, and then another, and yet another

When many a mother would have pawned their daughters for gain

You turned our hearts Godward, we sang and prayed until God sent us rain!

You told me I was beautiful before any boy ever had the chance to sweep my feet away

With pride and gratefulness, you celebrated me in ways I never knew a mother could

Your Godly wisdom and good counsel have played their part in the woman I am today.

Mommy, when I think of love, I think of you.

Your love is patient, your love is kind.

Self-sacrifice is nothing to you.

And can I ever cease to be

Affectionate and kind to thee,

Who was so very kind to me?

My Mother.

When thou art feeble, old, and gray,

My healthy arm shall be thy stay,

And I will soothe thy pains away,

My Mother.

Happy Mothers Day to Mothers all around the world! If you have a mother or one that has been a mother to you, this is what the scripture has to say;

"Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate." (Proverbs 31:31)